Before
going into an explanation about the differences between sexuality and
asexuality, sex and gender, I would like to say that labels are not
exclusive. You don't have to label yourself at all if you don't feel
like any existing word can define your orientation, or you can pick the
closest existing word to how you feel and add to it or mix up different
terms. Who is to tell you how you feel? No one. You alone know who you
are. The spectrums of sexuality and gender are spectrums of infinity, no
one fits perfectly into any box. Some people are against labeling all
together. However, labels can be useful in some circumstances such as
when you’re questioning or coming out. They can help explain to people
how you feel and who you are.
